Reminding Others of Past Favors

The shaikh, Dr. Muḥammad ibn Ghālib Al-ʿUmarī, may Allāh protect him, said:

Reminding others of good things done for them in the past is for Allāh [to do], far is He above all imperfection. He is the One who gives every good thing to [His] slaves, Al-Wahhāb [the Ever-Plentifully Giving], Al-Muʿṭī [the Sole Bestower of All Things].

As for some slaves of [His] reminding others of good things they’ve done for them in the past, it’s a blameworthy characteristic, like [when] a man reminds his wife, a wife her husband, or a friend his friend, of good things they’ve done for them in the past.

And more repulsive than that is a son reminding his parents [of such].