What It Takes to Build a Good Family
The shaikh, Dr. Muḥammad ibn Ghālib Al-ʿUmarī, may Allāh protect him, said:
To build it the right way, a family needs a husband who does what’s between him and his Lord properly; knows his obligations and fulfills them; is noble and generous in his treatment [of others]; refined in speech; and good at taking care [of his family].
[And it needs] a wife who attends to the matters of her worship; knows her rights and obligations; recognizes her husband’s place and status; makes sure the respect due to him always remains; is content with whatever she gets; and refined in her speech and actions.
As for false appearances and ideals, they’re all too quick to disappear, lead to evil ends, and leave behind ugly traces.
Source: twitter.com/m_g_alomari. 20 Oct 23.
تحتاج الأسرة في بنائها الصحيح
إلى زوج يحسن فيما بينه وبين ربه
ويصلح حاله مع أهله
يعلم ما يجب عليه فيأتيه
كريم المعشر، أديب اللفظ، حسن العناية.
وإلى زوجة قائمة على أمر عبادتها
عالمة بحقوقها وواجباتها
تعرف لزوجها مكانته،
وتحفظ له هيبته
قنوعة فيما حصّلت
أديبة فيما قالت وفعلت
— د.محمد بن غالب العُمري (@m_g_alomari) October 20, 2023