The Effect of Your Words
The shaikh, Dr. Muḥammad ibn Ghālib Al-ʿUmarī, may Allāh protect him, said:
Choose your words when you speak.
There are words that mend hearts and others that break [them]; words that are a comfort and others, deep wounds.
So don’t be abusive to someone who truly loves [you], even if you were only joking, because that’s one of the reasons people stay away [from others], [one of] the things that make [people] become distant and cold.
Source: @m_g_alomari. 11 Apr 21.
اختر ألفاظك في خطابك
هناك كلمات تجبر القلب
وأخرى تكسر القلب
وكلمات هي جبر الخاطر
وأخرى هي جرح غائر
فلا تكن مسيئا للمحب الصادق؛ ولو كنت مازحا
فذلك من أسباب النفور، وموجبات الجفاء.— د.محمد بن غالب العُمري (@m_g_alomari) April 11, 2021