Intelligent Husbands and Wives (2 of 2)
The shaikh, Dr. Muḥammad ibn Ghālib Al-ʿUmarī, may Allāh protect him, said:
One who’s intelligent and has good understanding among women is one who is good to her husband by guarding over his religion; then by keeping safe his place [as head of the household]; taking care to obey him; valuing his opinions; finding excuses for him whenever possible; and being quick to accept his excuse or apology if he apologizes.
And she honors him and treats him well through whatever he likes from things that might be said or done.
For life is giving and sacrifice; two partners come together in it and agree that each must keep on building and that their building must hold together.
Source: m_g_alomary/twitter.com. 13 Mar 22. 0549 GMT+3.
والعاقلة من النساء من تحسن إلى زوجها بحفظ دينه، ثم الحفاظ على مكانته، والعناية بطاعته، وتقدير رأيه، وتلتمس له العذر ما أمكن، وتسرع إلى قبول العذر إن اعتذر.
وتكرمه بما أحب من الأقوال والأفعال.
فالحياة بذل وعطاء، يتوافق بها الشريكان على دوام بنائهما، وتماسك بنيانهما.
— د.محمد بن غالب العُمري (@m_g_alomari) March 13, 2022