In Word and Deed
The shaikh, Dr. Muḥammad ibn Ghālib Al-ʿUmarī, may Allāh protect him, said:
Don’t be, when you advise [people], a meek, gentle lamb, and [then], when you interact [with them], a lowly, despicable wolf.
So the phrases you put together are the words of good manners and conduct, but what actually comes about from you reveals [you] and exposes [you].
Whoever wants [his] circumstances to be upright must force himself to make his actions match his speech.
Other than that is [just] using up words and having [only] a momentary impact….
And Allāh is the only One who can help us.
Source: twitter.com/m_g_alomari. 31 Dec 23.
لا تكن في نصحك حمل وديع،
وفي تعاملك ذئب وضيع
فالعبارات تصوغها ألفاظ الأدبيات،
والوقائع منك كاشفات فاضحات
من رغب في صلاح الأحوال؛
فليرغم نفسه على موافقة الأفعال للأقوال
وماعدا ذلك فهو استنزاف لفظي،
وتأثر لحظي ..
والله المستعان.— د.محمد بن غالب العُمري (@m_g_alomari) December 31, 2023

