Giving People Another Chance
The shaikh, Dr. Muḥammad ibn Ghālib Al-ʿUmarī, may Allāh protect him, said:
Having patience is a way of keeping relationships going, and excusing and overlooking [wrongs done by others] is what people of generous, noble character do.
Giving [people] chances takes some understanding and needs some wisdom. Some [people] deserve your treating them generously and giving them more than one chance; [meanwhile], giving some [other people] another chance is [just] extending [an opportunity] for them to cause more harm and repeat mistakes.
Someone who’s intelligent with people is like a doctor who assesses a case during the course of treating it and [evaluates] what will be good for it and [what will] make it better.
Source: twitter.com/m_g_alomari. 26 Oct 22.
الصبر سبيلٌ لاستمرار العلاقات
والإعذار والتغافل فعل الكرماء
وإعطاء الفرص له فقهٌ، ويحتاج لحكمة.
فالبعض يستحق أن تكرمه، وتعطيه أكثر من فرصة.
وإعطاء البعض فرصة أخرى؛ هو تمديد له بزيادة الإساءة، وتكرار الخطأ.
والعاقل مع الناس كالطبيب يقدّر الحالة في علاجها، وما ينفعها، ويصلحها.— د.محمد بن غالب العُمري (@m_g_alomari) October 26, 2022