Getting Over Bad Experiences
The shaikh, Dr. Muḥammad ibn Ghālib Al-ʿUmarī, may Allāh protect him, said:
Your having been afflicted by [some] bad or evil person in your life is not an excuse for you to generalize [that as a] judgment against everyone–like an employee [might generalize], having had an autocratic manager in the past; a wife, having had an oppressive husband, [now] divorced; a business partner, having [once] had a partner who cheated him.
Don’t let fear and agitation stay with you so that [they] stop you from having beneficial relationships [with others] and [going for] things that are good for you in religious or worldly matters.
Seek Allāh’s help, pray the Istikharah prayer [asking Him to grant you what’s best in a decision], and be optimistic.
Source: @m_g_alomari. 25 Nov 21. 11:47 GMT+3.
كونك تبتلى بشخص سيء، في حياتك، ليس عذرا لك أن تعمم هذا الحكم على الجميع.
كالموظف مع مديره السابق المتسلط
والزوجة مع طليقها الظالم
والشريك مع شريكه المخادع
لا تستصحب الخوف والقلق، فيحجزك ذلك عن العلاقات النافعة، ومصالحك الدينية والدنيوية.
استعن بالله، واستخر، وتفاءل.— د.محمد بن غالب العُمري (@m_g_alomari) November 25, 2021