Getting a Son Married to Help Him Come to His Senses?
The shaikh, Dr. Muḥammad ibn Ghālib Al-ʿUmarī, may Allāh protect him, said:
Some say, “Get him married, he’ll come to his senses!!”
Rather get him to come to his senses [first], advise him, and ask of Allāh’s help in his becoming righteous, then get him married–because our daughters and our sisters are not places to experiment on and test things out on.
[If] someone is fed up trying to fix his son and make him righteous, let him not burden someone else with him, nor cheat someone else by praising [his son] when he doesn’t deserve that praise.
Source: @m_g_alomari. 25 Nov 20. 15:23 GMT+3.
يقول البعض : زوجوه يعقل!!
بل عقّلوه وانصحوه واستعينوا بالله في صلاحه ثم زوجوه، فبناتنا وأخواتنا لسن ميدانا للتجارب والاختبارات.
ومن ضاق بولده إصلاحا واستقامة فلا يكلّف غيره به، ولا يغشّ غيره بالثناء عليه وهو لا يستحق الثناء.
— د.محمد بن غالب العُمري (@m_g_alomari) November 25, 2020