A Little Quick to Write People Off?

The shaikh, Dr. Muḥammad ibn Ghālib Al-ʿUmarī, may Allāh protect him, said:

If it were your rule to strike off a list every person who’s done you wrong, without excusing him or thinking over this wrong [he did you] and what might have brought it on, then you’re not going to have anyone left on your list.

And if you were to have looked a bit more closely into your own situation you would have been the first to have been struck off, as it’s been said:

اذا كنت في كل الأمور معاتباً ** صديقك لم تلقَ الذي لا تعاتبه
فعش واحدا أو صل أخاك، فأنه ** مقارف ذنبٍ مرة ومجانبه

If you were, in all matters, finding fault with your friends,
[know] you won’t find someone that you’ll never find fault with;
so live on your own, or stay in touch with your brother
because he’ll dip into sin sometimes and avoid it [at others].

Source: @m_g_alomari. 4 May 21.